Showing posts with label on blast. Show all posts
Showing posts with label on blast. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Gold Club Member, Singer, and...in the O.R.?

{GCM: Marlon & Yvette Butler}
Can you imagine... patient comes in with half a cranium falling from a horrible accident, and this Gold Club Member, is in the operating room, assisting with the surgery? How awesome is that? Along with these talents, Marlon also has a smooth jazz CD that could definitely become one of your smooth groove favorites, and it's sitting on our cash wrap:

His debut CD "Siren Song" is a blend of smooth vocals and catchy melodies that will take you on a sensual musical excursion.

Marlon's performance demonstrates music artistry that will, relax your mind, while rekindling the experience of romance!

Marlon's vocal range is illustrated in the "Siren Song CD" in which covers the songs of music industry legends such as: Van Morrison, Kevin Mahogany, Bonnie Raitt, Al Jarreau, Brenda Russel, Regina Bell, and the late Lou Rawls.
Born in Los Angeles, California, Marlon Butler is an upcoming Jazz and R& B vocalist who brings life to the stage and studio. Performing at Jazz Clubs in CA such as:

  • The Fender Museum in Corona
  • The Eagles Nest at the Pechaunga Casino Resort
  • The Liemert Parks Regency West
  • Al Mansor Court Country Club
  • and, The Hollywood Park Casino

Marlon is a rare Bass / Baritone, whose commanding yet smooth pinpoint vocal control, resonates sensuality and passion. You can actually feel the heat as Marlon places his personal touch on these legendary classic love songs.

LET'S SUPPORT ONE OF OUR OWN THIS:

Valentines’ Day!

Monday, January 5, 2009

Can you smell what the "COOKS" have been Cook'n?

So where are the "COOKS"?
This couple was one of our 1st Gold Club Members. Every weekend they would grace us with their presence, and share the funniest stories with all who were in the tasting room. They are one of the most entertaining couples you could ever meet. their laugh is infectious, and their charm is addicting. BUUTT... have you noticed that, after winning thge "Grr-ape Streak" Award, they've been gone.
M.I.A.?
POOF! Gone.
Well, there is a reason for every season, and it's time for them to....
Yes, you've guessed it! They are pregnant! And not just with 1...
but 2!
YES! we are excited to announce that we {the entire tasteing room} are having:
TWINS!
Let me share with you all, "the announcement":
GRAB YOUR BOX OF POPCORN AND ENJOY TONIGHTS
"Private Screening"
tata....all you cyber friends!

Saturday, December 27, 2008

another win at our shop!


{mr denny and his wife k. cherry}
mr denny is know for his i.t. experience, expertise and charming wit. he's one of our wine club members and it is our honor to announce one of his career awards:

Mr. Denny Cherry , MCSA, MCDBA, MCTS, MCITP

Primary Profile:Denny Cherry has over a decade of experience managing SQL Server, including MySpace.com’s over 175 million user installation, one of the largest in the world. Denny’s areas of technical expertise include system architecture, performance tuning, replication and troubleshooting. Denny uses these skills on a regular basis in his current role as a Sr. Database Administrator and Architect at Awareness Technologies. Denny currently holds several Microsoft Certifications related to SQL Server as well as being a Microsoft MVP. Denny is a longtime member of PASS and Quest Software’s Association of SQL Server Experts and has written numerous technical articles on SQL Server management.
published article in: SQL Server Magazine

"Planning and Implementing an SQL Server"
December 2008
great job, mr denny!

unofficial vacation!


well lovelies, i apologize that i have been away for a bit. i was just completely caught up with my 9-5pm {not really} career and ending my sales year on a high note!. And so now that my vacation from the 9-5pm has begun,... i know have the time to dedicate to our personal business. imagine that!
so for those of you who wonder how a woman can handle and juggle such a crazy life... all i can say is determination, passion, dedication, and most important, maintaining a spiritual relationship with the man upstairs. ultimately, HE's the only prayer that keep me grounded, when i feel like my world is spinning out of control. He keeps me true to myself, and my core.
when life puts you in the spot light for doing what you love, {wine, food, and entertainment...}there are many people looking at you as either a role model, to crap on you because something in their world has upset them, to simply give you constructive criticism, pass judgement on every move you make {because you mentioned that you believe in JC...BAM!...spotlight, and... SHEEEEWM...microscope},

or just come in to see you as their refuge from it all!
either way, both of my careers are paying huge personal dividends.
so, when in doubt that you can't handle the pressures of what life brings you...come in and we'll make you smile. that our job. right? {wink}

Sunday, October 12, 2008

making the limelight, can be a lemon?

still staying true to the chronicles, i have to walk women through a moment in the life of the lime light.
now don't get me wrong, i'm all about the stage, and lights, camera, action...but, in business. hmmm! there is no class on balancing marriage and business in the "real" world. and the truth of the matter is...you will be tempted and put in some very compromising situations, when the can of whoop ass! isn't plan B anymore. there is nothing more sexy than watching your husband on a stage performing his "manly" duties of "The Provider". it's an awesome act of kindness, self sacrifice, etc.etc. when you have your own business, and you see you hubby working to make a future for your family and your children's future. but here's the deal, ladies...
strength!
a woman with a man in business or any power, or uniform power position...needs so much strength and self confidence, because, other woman who don't have that...want that. and will do anything to hurt your marriage, to to have a day in "your shoes". couple that with childhood insecurities that rear their ugly heads, when the opportunity arise, and when you least expect it, "bam!", your relationship is just put through "the TEST!"

plus, we, woman have to know that if you allow your man off the leash for to long, or turn around, in 1 second all hell can just break loose, if he is not properly trained, i mean that in the kindness way. seriously!.if the leash is to long, he can hang himself, or if you turn around at the wrong time, hungry predators, that come in all shapes and sizes, will try to lure him away...
for a kill.

and the smell of sweet success for another woman is...well, let's be honest...woman are a different breed. right? especially a driven woman. she will not stop, until she knows that she can get what she wants...at all cost!

with that said, i've been approached often about how great my husband is and how comfortable, he makes everyone feel and again, and again, how great he is!! and honestly, "i absolutely know!". also, if you look at the goals we set up prior to opening, customer service was and has always been our #1 priority. mi casa su casa, absolutely! did we want to set our place up to be a home away from home for our clients, you betcha'! but...all the marriage counseling and marriage retreats, would have never prepared a woman in business for what i am about to share:

i was approached by another woman that was pretty forward in asking me if she can invite my husband to her house for a "personal" house party to meet her "hollywood" friends and "by the way" maybe cook dinner. {rabbit+boiling water=?}then says to me, "since i've booked this event on a sunday night, i understand that it wouldn't be taking you {me} away from your kids all day, and you can spend the day with them while he {victor} comes over and enjoys the night with me and my friends, alone. are you ok with that? {looks at me} you wouldn't even have to pay for babysitting since it's on a weekend."
hmmm. i thought to myself, well, he's a grown man, "sure", i said, in the name of a business smile. if he's willing to take you up on the offer, that is entirely up to him. and that is the truth. luckily for me, we've been married long enough for him to know that, that entire scenario lifted "red flags" all over the place. we both laughed that night and said, "dude, is this an indecent proposal?" but, these are the winestyle chronicles, and i am giving you the wins and the loses, and i do have to toss this one up to one of our "wins"!


first of all, because our marriage is being tested and tempted everyday, and we are persevering through it with God in our marriage. and giving Him all the glory because we, as individual humans before, would not have handled these situations the way we do now. we, both, have come a long way. That's why, we both realized that no matter what it takes, we would not sacrifice our family time, nor our marriage for the sake of getting ahead. {greed}

if we are not making profit, money, or budget, we would always make time for those 2 priorities. you have to have faith that as long as we keep focus on God in our family and our marriage...He will allow us that time to glorify Him. our foundation is our family and our marriage, and we just can not rock the foundation that has allowed us to be here and sharing awesome moments with others that are just great people. so know that, even though we are in the limelight, things aren't always what they seem, but strength, faith, and prayer can get you through some crazy moments such as this one. i have to stay grounded knowing that if i would have given in to the temptation, chances are the outcome would have affected me and my family more than just my selfish high of sweeping the floor with this great woman's behind.

so when you ask me how i do it, or how do i stay so composed...remember, i breath and bleed just like everyone else. life is just like "turbo kickboxing", you can't get to comfortable because things can always change.

so with that said, you can not take each other for granted in a marriage, but one thing for sure always sign up for that marriage class, because it will save your relationship and keep you grounded when things get out of hand in your relationships.

no amount of money or fame is worth taking the the place of private quality time with the ones you love!!

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

who stole the cookies from the cookie jar?

well, i am sad to report this BLAST...but, if i am going to be true to the chronicles, then reports about the good the bad and the ugly have to be mentioned. we've been open for quite some time now, and it's amazing how you get to know people and enjoy there company. you figure, if your going to open up a business, you have to be very, very passionate about what your selling because you literally have to be there 24/7. it literally is your baby.

i have a full time 9am-9pm job, and it is very demanding, but on occasion, i need a reality check, and so i go help my husband at the shop when we have major events!
on this particular day, we have some customers that we, from the beginning have enjoyed there company. you would think that, most people coming into the shop have your best interest in mind...but guess what? it is not always the case!
so a man and 2 women come into the shop. often. good times, laugh, joke, hahaha! but on this particular day, i'm imagining that, because i am not there that often, they might assume that my husband and i don't communicate.
ha-haah! my dear sherlock? we talk all the time! and at every given moment at the shop. we use allot of code because we need to communicate business while people are amongst us!
so anyway, this group decides that they want to drink a bottle of this special wine we got into the shop, there in our lounge.
well at the end of there night, as so many do...when they are done, they come up to the cash wrap to pay there bill. on the bill victor wrote, "bottle of Reggae Rhapsody for here".
well, i get busy sometimes and i just automatically do the due! so i pack up the wine and give it to them. well, the man takes the bottle and hands it off to the 1 woman on his right, real quick. i'm busy trying to get the receipts and there other stuff! when i look up, he's mumbling something to the other woman to his left that gave me her card to pay for the items.
well, i initially thought, i did something wrong, so i say, "did, i do something wrong?"
all 3 reply, "no!"
so as i am putting the receipt in the cash wrap, i look at the girl holding the bag and say, "was there something wrong?" she looks at me, picks up the bag of the wine they drank in the shop........


that i put in a bag mistakenly, and i say, "yup! that's the Reggae Rhapsody"...hahuk!
i am not thinking...anything but...he's mumbling for a reason. right?

if someone is mumbling at you wouldn't you think....what?

who would think, "dishonest", no!....i'm thinking i did something wrong!!
She{woman 1 to the right} put the bag down hesitating, i look at the couple and say,

"ok. if there something i did, ______, you let me know ok."
the wife, says, "oh he's drunk, he doesn't know what he's saying, he's mumbling."
They leave the shop, and once they have hit the parking area, i look on the receipt, and i remember ..."bottle of Reggae Rhapsody for here."
ahahahahahah! i look out the door, and realize..."dude. did they just steal from us!?"
that is technically a stolen piece of property..right?

and, ...um are they just taking it with them?

One unpaid bottle for the road!

YUP! AND....it was all caught on camera!
I show victor the play back, and sure enough...! luckily i kept the receipt to show victor! and he could see the couple talking on video.

that they did have the bottle at the shop!and to his dismay & disappointment, indeed, one of his "most unlikely" to steal clients is indeed, and officially on the radar as an

offender!!!
it is so sad because, the bottle of wine was less than $20.
but little does the client realize, that, that $20, at this time in our life, just took food off of our table!

we have small kids and we're struggling to see the kids because we're so busy trying to make a life for their future! not to be rich....but for them to be set, and hopefully not struggling, etc.etc. no soapbox here!
and now this nice group that was once a great group, has just hit the "do not trust" list because, what they did made us realize that some people don't care for our lively hood.

what?yes...some don't!

and what they also don't realize is that everyday that i go out to work, i am sacrificing allot for that overhead. everything that is in that shop, momma goes to work to help maintain the house while dad tries to make a living selling wine and trying to make a business take off in a struggling economy. we are still trying to make life for the kids as "normal" as possible.

all this, over a $20 bottle of wine, they just became thieves in mommas mind because i am sacrificing so much for this family, trying to balance it all, and they just took food off my table!

it may look like there is allot of wine in that shop, but guess what? momma know what come in and what goes out!

why? because momma knows how many cookies she's put in the cookie jar.

BLAST OFF {wink} GOT CHA! no...CAUGHT CHA! {smile, wink}